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Quick question that might help to reframe this. When you feel like this, does kicking yourself create fuel through guilt that you transmute into progress OR does kicking yourself act as deterrent to wanting to work on it? If you figure out which it is, you can work WITH the shadow, not against the grain of it. Whichever it is, use it to strategize. And be nice to Kailey - she kicks ass! 🙏🏻💜💫

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Love this, thank you. Sometimes the guilt leads to progress and sometimes it’s a deterrent. But I like this idea of working with and not against. Overall, yes I need to be nicer to myself haha ❤️✨

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You're doing great! Life is going to happen! 🙏🏻💜💫

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You’ve had an incredible writing year even if it didn’t look exactly how you expected! The moving goalpost is so familiar to me, and I truly believe it’s just the nature of novel writing. We need mental and physical energy to write, and sometimes in busy seasons of life, we just don’t have enough to go around. You’re doing amazing and I’m so excited to see what 2024 holds for you and your work!

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Thank you so much, Kristin! You have been so encouraging to me this past year! Im looking forward to seeing what the new year brings for you too 🤗

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moving goalposts -- notes i needed to hear about my own writing. ty 🫶🏻

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🤗

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